June 01, 2008

Be yourself (really)

I'm going to put this here because it is something I need to remember --

Insist on yourself; never imitate. Your own gift you can present every moment with the cumulative force of a whole life's cultivation; but of the adopted talent of another you have only an extemporaneous half possession. --Ralph Waldo Emerson

April 09, 2008

The prize divides us

I wish I could learn to remember this, to make it really part of me (translated by Thomas Merton) --

When an archer is shooting for nothing 
  He has all his skill.
  If he shoots for a brass buckle
  He is already nervous.
  If he shoots for a prize of gold
  He goes blind
  Or sees two targets--
  He is out of his mind!

    His skill has not changed.  But the prize
  Divides him.  He cares.
  He thinks more of winning
  Than of shooting--
  And the need to win
  Drains him of power.

 

In a similar vein --

No use fretting over gold, beauty or fame;
Nurturing these, how can we calm
Our fluttering heart?

Non attachment brings deep truth,
And a truthful nature brings immortality.

Empty your heart,
Sit quietly on a mat.

In meditation we become one with All;
Tao billows like the vapors
In a mountain valley,
And its supernatural power wafts into our soul.

-- Loy Ching-Yuen (1873-1960)

March 24, 2008

Our errand

John F. Kennedy:

Every man can make a difference and everyone should try.

Woodrow Wilson:

You are not here merely to make a living. You are here in order to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world, and you impoverish yourself if you forget the errand. Woodrow Wilson

February 26, 2008

Write one thing

Terrific advice - for writers and for everyone - at Write to Done. This is a site I want to spend some time at and get to know better!

May 16, 2007

Graciousness

Graciousness is, to me, essential to the good life. Or even the endurable life. Here's a page of definitions of this life-saving, life-enhancing concept -- graciousness.

May 15, 2007

Wrestling ever anew

In recent days I have found the following quotation returning to my mind over and over again --

"I, who am truly no zaddik, no one assured in God, rather a man endangered before God, a man wrestling ever anew for God's light, ever anew engulfed in God's abysses, . . .

-- Martin Buber, Tales of the Hasidim

I need to remember that I too am "endangered before God, wrestling ever anew for the His Light."  It is helpful to know that someone of Buber's stature felt the same.   

April 19, 2007

Causes and effects

We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow men; and among those fibers, as sympathetic threads, our actions run as causes, and they come back to us as effects.

— Herman Melville

October 15, 2006

Daily celebrations

You will probably like the Daily Celebrations site.  I like especially to find my way around by using this directory.

July 26, 2006

Reminders

I don't entirely agree with this statement, but it is nonetheless a good reminder --

To do the useful thing, to say the courageous thing, to contemplate the beautiful thing: that is enough for one man's life. -- T. S. Eliot (1888-1965)

And then there is this --

One ought everyday to hear a song, read a fine poem, and, if possible, speak a few reasonable words. -- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749-1832)

Finally, I am chuffed to learn that Goethe and I agree in the following --
In all things it is better to hope than to despair.

February 04, 2006

On happiness (by Aristotle & Kingwell)

Mark Kingwell, a Canadian professor, wrote the following a few years ago --

I once wrote a book about happiness. . . .  [A]t the end of the day, I kept coming back to old, old insights about happiness and world affairs, ones missed by too many psych studies and the people they poll.

Happiness, said Aristotle, is not a feeling or an experience, it is an ethical state of being. It means judging that you have made the right choices and done the right things, and enjoyed a measure of luck along the way. Where and when you are born, how the play of daily contingency affects you, do not determine your happiness, but they do constrain it. And so it often seems as though the choices of everyday life, cosmically small though they are, matter far more than events in distant capitals and war zones.   

But here is the key point. You must live your entire life with honour and commitment. You must try to build something larger than yourself: a community of citizens, a community of reason, a just and peaceful world. You may be defeated, because violence, arrogance and unreason are powerful forces in history. But that does not diminish your responsibility.

(Note: The above paragraphs came from a column by Professor Kingwell in the National Post, a Canadian newspaper.   The original column is, alas, no longer available at the NP's website.   The book to which Kingwell refers is apparently In Pursuit of Happiness, now out of print, but still availabe at Amazon.com and, I trust, elsewhere on the Web.)